Our subconscious minds are incredibly powerful.  Our subconscious minds are subjective. They do not think or reason independently. They merely obey the commands they receive from our conscious minds. Our conscious minds command and our subconscious minds obey. 

Taking this into consideration, there are ways to use the subconscious to your advantage. Influence. Get what you want. Take control.  Please don’t message me with any feminist tirades or accusations of manipulation.  I don’t make the rules.

1.    WEAR LIPSTICK - Women who wear lipstick are perceived as prestigious.  Studies show the simple act of wearing lipstick will make people believe you’re successful and put together.

2.    WEAR CITRUS SCENTS – Women wearing citrus scents were perceived by men to be an average of 7 years younger than their actual ages.

3.    WEAR CURLY HAIR – Women with curly hair get 50% more attention on social media.

4.    SAY THEIR NAME – In conversations, say the person’s name.  Hearing your name being said by someone is an ego boost.  Studies show that hearing your own name has a unique effect on brain activity.

5.    TOUCH – Subliminal touching occurs when you touch a person so subtly that they barely notice.  Common examples include tapping someone’s back, removing lent or touching their arm, which can make them feel more warmly toward you.

6.    SHOW YOUR HANDS – When we can’t see people’s hands, we have trouble trusting them. When you put your hands in your pockets, tuck them under the table or hide them behind a coat, your attractiveness decreases because people can’t open up to you.  (Manicured nails are a plus  😊)

7.    YAWN – If you see someone yawn, you will yawn.  Sorry.  That’s biology.  So if you’re getting the sense that someone across the room is “making eyes” at you, go ahead and yawn.  If they yawn back, you will know who they’ve been looking at.  And that means you’ve got the advantage.

8. 30 SECOND RULE - Studies show people make up their minds about you in 30 seconds. When you walk in a room, own it. Smile. Strut. Make eye contact.

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