how to avoid fu3k boys

First things first – Fu3k boys are grown ass men. I’m guessing the ‘boy’ attribute came from the games they play.  Anyway, for this discussion they will remain fu3k boys.

The term fu3k boy may be a source of amusement to some.  For others, fu3k boys are no laughing matter.  Many have been hurt emotionally and drained financially by these entanglements.

What is a fu3k boy? My definition is a man who has no good intentions towards you.  You are being pursued solely to satisfy a need of his own.  It could be money, shelter, sex, food, transportation, clothing, trips, clout or whatever he thinks you’ll be able to provide him with nothing in return.  He will have no genuine affection towards you. He’s a user.

I know what you’re thinking.  How would I know?  Let’s just say – I’ve done my research.😊

Fu3k boys don’t wear signs.  But there are signs to help you avoid falling into the fu3k boy trap.  When you see them - Run girl! Run!

SIGN #1.  The Get

Fu3k boys don’t have a type.  They like everybody.  Skinny. Fat. Young. Old. Married. Ugly.  They don’t care. This is one of their main tools. How? Fu2k boys are usually physically attractive.  They take special care of their appearance. Excessively.  They want you to want them. You need to be honest with yourself. Are you really his ‘type’?  You’ll be flattered by his attention. Be confident, not naïve.

Fu3k boys take notice of your interests. It will feel nice, but it won’t be sincere.

Fu3k boys are persistent.  You may confuse this with genuine interest.  They know.  That’s why they do it.  That’s how they get you.

You may be thinking a man who’s really interested will display the same behavior.  True, but a fu3k boy will reveal his agenda shortly after you accept his advances.

SIGN #2. The Hook

Soon after you’ve accepted the fu3k boy’s advances, he will set you up for the hook.  He will start small.  He’s going to ask you to give him some small thing or do some small favor.  It could be as simple as bringing him something to eat.  Remember, you are not in a relationship.  He has only given you some attention.  He’s done nothing for you. This favor may seem harmless, but it tells him you’re open to do for him without him having done anything for you. Men are natural providers. He’s going to make you think he depends on you.  You’ll mistake this for caring.  It’s not.

This scenario would be ok if he’s shown he’ll give to you.  If not, you’re being groomed and conditioned.  If you fall for this, it’s over.  You’ll be trapped. Giving is an emotional investment.  We give in romantic relationships because we hope the other person feels the same and will give back. 

That’s it. The get and the hook.  All a fu3k boy wants to do is take.  The only thing he’ll give you is short lived pleasure.  Most of your time will be spent appeasing his whims.

Look out for these signs as well:

*       He tries to make you feel bad for not giving.  Will throw an absolute fit

*       He’s being especially nice and then asks for something

*       He never commits to anything

*        He does the bare minimum

*        He has ‘options’ – You’re not the only woman he’s seeing

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