Why you shouldn’t be mad at the ‘other woman’ & other unpopular beliefs

Wait.  What??  Don’t be mad at the homewrecker?  The Hoe? The Jezebel?  That’s right.  I said it. I’m not saying you shouldn’t be upset that another woman is with your ‘man’.  I’m saying you shouldn’t be mad at HER.

Here’s why:

·        You don’t have a commitment with her.  Your commitment is with HIM.  She doesn’t owe you anything. Even if she knows he’s with you.  HE broke the commitment. Even if she pursued him, he went for it.  He could have told you about it.  He could have said, “No”.  He should have honored your commitment.

·        You know he’s cheating, but you stay with him anyway. Are you trying to win him back? Are you trying to prove you’re better than her? Are you trying to convince yourself that he really loves you? Whatever your reasons, you can’t be mad at the clowns if you keep going to the circus. I’ve seen this so many times.  You’re going to fight to win him back. Fight her. Curse her – and somehow, you’re going to win?  Wrong! He wins. He’ll have you both.

·        She’s probably living a good life.  She’s probably happy. She probably thinks you’re stupid.  The more energy you direct toward her, the more relevant you make her in your life. She’s not worth it.

·        You don’t know what he told her about you or your relationship. Do you think he tells her he’s totally happy with you? Do you think he tells her how wonderful you are?  Do you believe he tells her he loves YOU?  Of course not! You’re mad at her?

·        This one is hard.  Look at yourself.  Why do you want this? What would it mean if you walked away?

I know life isn’t simple and every situation is different, but you owe yourself dignity.  If she can get him, she should have him.  You deserve better.

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